Rev Jill Dillner

The ceremony should offer as much excitement as the wedding!

Rev Jill Dillner is a wedding officiant covering NJ, NY, PA & MD.  Since 2003, she has performed over 1000 weddings, baptisms and vow renewals.  She believes that your ceremony — whether single faith, interfaith or no-faith — should reflect your relationship and your commitment to each other and your families.  Fun, flexible and supportive, Rev Jill works with her couples to create spiritual, memorable ceremonies. She will listen to your ideas and assist you with suggestions, while helping you navigate the process.  You should be sure that your officiant has the desire, energy, and personality to make your event all you have hoped for and more!   Together you will create the perfect ceremony!


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Wedding Fees Start at $500 and include:

  • a complimentary video meeting prior to booking (to make sure you love me:)
  • a ceremony planning meeting to give me the information I need to write and amazing ceremony!
  • custom ceremony based on your input
  • all related travel and expenses
  • rehearsal that day prior to the ceremony
  • ceremony coordination with venue and vendors
  • ceremony performance
  • filing of completed marriage license




Baptism Fees Start at $350 and include:


  •  video meeting prior to booking (to make sure you like me:)
  • custom ceremony creation based on your input
  • all related travel and expenses
  • unlimited e-mail and phone consultations
  • ceremony coordination with venue and vendors
  • ceremony performance
  • Baptismal Certificate if baptism is performed



Elopement Fees Range From $200-$350

A little bit of Vegas in NJ!

(Elvis suit not included)

This is a beautiful pre-written "short and simple" ceremony.  I will meet you at the location of your choosing. .
All you need to provide are 2 witnesses and a valid NJ marriage license.

What My Couples Are Saying

“Where do we begin??? My husband & I just loved Rev Jill. We met her on a whim after she was recommended to us and, within 5 minutes, were confident that we wanted her to perform our ceremony. Rev Jill tailors the ceremony to your preferences and needs. We chose a civil, non-religious ceremonial with classic English literary passages outlining our vows and she was more than happy to accommodate. Rev Jill even allowed us final edits on her ceremony script, which I feel is rare for an officiant. She is heartfelt, funny as anything (where appropriate), and just a wonderfully-natural speaker.” Emily

Married on 10/14/14

“People have not stopped raving about our ceremony and Reverend! Jill is the best! Hands down! Such an easy process and she is so helpful and fun to work with! We ended up last minute meeting in a panera close by later at night and stayed and closed down the restaurant just talking! The way she personalized our ceremony made us feel like the only 2 In the world. You would think she knew us our whole lives how she spoke with such confidence and caught on to who were are as individuals and a couple. Hands down the best! We thank you Jill with such a deep gratitude that words can’t describe!” Gena

Married on 4/28/2018

“Rev Jill was PHENOMENAL and she should be your only choice for your officiant needs 🙂 It was important to find an officiant who wasn’t simply reading from a binder, but had a presence and was well-spoken. However, Rev Jill was the ONLY officiant I found that had samples of that. Her Instagram had snippets of her officiating, and she also has YouTube videos of herself in a web series about weddings. Through those resources, I could tell she wouldn’t just read from a binder. Our first meeting with her was via Skype as our schedule give us room to meet with her in person, but her personality came through and she made it SO easy to talk to her.” Sheryl

Married on 3/24/2018


Cassie & Chris’ Wedding Video

Cassie & Chris’ Wedding Video

Clark's Landing in Pt Pleasant NJ This is a beautiful clip from Ambiance Video Productions.  I am so flattered that my ceremony is part of the narration!  

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Making The Ceremony Unique

Making The Ceremony Unique

Video 1 from my interview with Hooked Weddings host Denny TestaCheck out my interview on the wedding web series Hooked Weddings.  I had a blast working with Denny and his crew!

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